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Helen E. Whitmus
October 15, 1934 - August 5, 2020

Helen E. Whitmus

Helen E. Whitmus
Oct 15, 1934 - Aug 5, 2020

Helen E. Whitmus
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Madison- Helen E. Whitmus, age 85, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, August 5, 2020 at Agrace Hospice Inpatient Unit in Fitchburg. She was born in Butte, Montana on October 15, 1934, the daughter of Frank and Erma Birmingham. Helen graduated from Butte High School Class of 1953. On September 10, 1961 Helen married the love of her life, William R. Whitmus in Wolf Point, Montana. They were one month and 5 days away from celebrating their 59 wedding anniversary. William blessed Helen with the ability to stay at home and raise their son, Wade, prior to returning to the workforce, she cherished the time spent with her son. Helen worked as a Clerk at the City of Wolf Point for three years, and then as a Deputy at Roosevelt Country Treasurers Office in Wolf Point, Montana for 19 years before retiring. In 2002 Helen and William moved to Madison. They attended the Wellspring United Methodist Church in Madison. Helen was a member of the Order of the Eastern Star, Degree of Honor (local and State President in Montana), United Methodist Women, DeMolay Mother, and Den 5 Cub Scout Leader. She enjoyed coloring, especially flowers and butterflies, watching her granddaughter Shannon grow up and attending her various events and sporting activities, whist card games, visiting friends, and especially caring for family. Regularly attending church worship services was important to Helen but harder the last couple of years due to her declining health. She held a special joy to serve the church being the lead Communion Steward. Helen had a long and valiant battle with cancer, starting with chronic leukemia in July 1988 and adding stomach cancer in November 2019. She recently shared, "I am a tough old bird, but my feathers are getting tattered." Helen loved her immediate family dearly. They were her focus and importance in life. Helen will be missed and is lovingly survived by her husband of 59 years, William; son, Wade (Shelley) Whitmus; granddaughter, Shannon Whitmus; niece, Marlys (Bill) Van Kleef; nephews, Frank (Mary) Wiers and Kenneth (Claryce) Wiers; numerous brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law; cousin, Erma Bryson; many extended family members; and dear friends in Madison and across Montana. She was preceded in death by her parents; sisters, Mary Murray and Lois Wiers; brother-in-law, Walter Wiers; and in-laws, Frank and Marjorie Whitmus. A celebration of Helen's life will be held with date and time to be announced. Final internment will be in Wolf Point, Montana. Even though Helen spent nearly two decades in Wisconsin, she was a "Montana Girl" at heart. Memorials may be made to Agrace HospiceCare Inc. or Wellspring UMC Women in Madison, Wisconsin. The Family extends a warm special thank you to Dr. Sanyal and Dr. Daley and their staff, and Agrace HospiceCare for lovingly caring for Helen. Please share your memories of Helen by posting Tributes.
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Merle and Marjorie Bengston on Sep 2, 2020

We send our condolences to the members of Helen's family. We became acquainted during the Whitmus' time at Asbury. Helen had a wonderful sense of humor. She will be missed by all who knew her. Merle and Marjorie Bengston.

Carla Hunsley on Aug 24, 2020

Helen was such a wonderful, classy lady! I am so privileged to have had her in my life. Her sense of humor was so refreshing. She also had a professional way about her and always made sure everything had to be correct with her (paper trail). I will miss our phone conversations so much! I regret not being able to go visit her in Madison, but her memory will live on forever in my mind. Our deepest sympathy to Bill, her loving husband that was always by her side, and her son, Wade and daughter-in-law Shelley and granddaughter, Shannon. Thoughts and prayers! Carla and Roger Hunsley and family

Barbara Dick on Aug 14, 2020

CandleHelen's light in this world lives on in our memories of her gentle, sweet spirit. Our prayers are with you, Bill, and the family as you navigate your grief and celebrate her wonderful life. Blessings, Barbara & Dan Dick

Mike and Kathy Manders on Aug 13, 2020

Bill, Wade, Shelley, and Shannon:
Words can't express how sad we are to hear of Helen's passing. What an amazing woman she was and we are so blessed to have known her. Working in the treasurer's office with her was such a good learning experience and she was always kind (and firm when she needed to be) to everyone. Loved her smile and her laugh - can picture her walking through all those crazy vault doors we had! And little Helen manhandling those gigantic ledgers we used to record transactions in...Such wonderful memories! Who can help but smile when thinking of Helen?! Our sympathy and prayers are with you as she will be so very missed.
Peace of Christ to you all - Mike and Kathy Manders

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